Try the first and most effective way of getting them away from you. Act like you are not aware of them trying to harass you, and kindly (with NO tone) ask them to leave the room.
If this fails, ignore them completely. They will eventually lose interest in bugging you and either find someone else to pester, or just leave.
Act as if nothing is going on, and that he doesn’t even exist. If babysitting, and all else fails, call for reinforcements (examples- parents, neighbors ect) this will lessen the amount of “annoyingness”.
Try to talk in private with your parent(s) or guardian(s) and see what they think because if your brother doesn’t listen to you when you say stop maybe your parent can talk to them about respecting you more.
If he wants to play a game with you make a compromise. Offer to play a game that they really like either straight away or later (depending on how you feel); as long as they let you play your game without them. This will give them some of your attention and it will let them get over their need to spend time with you.
He loves you; he just wants to be around you. He enjoys fighting with you and making you miserable because that’s how they show they love you at least that is what my mom says.
Do not show your brother that you’re angry, because when you fight fire with fire it will get worse.
If your brother is 1-2 years older than you, tell your parents. They’re only a few years apart from you. Than probably know how you feel. When you tell your parents, try suggesting them not to tell your brother that you told them. He can tease you for being a “tattle tale”.
If your brother is more than 3 years older than you, and they’re MATURE, tell them to stop. Tell him that his “rival” or a weirdo geek wouldn’t do that. If he does have a rival, tell him that you’ll rather be his rival’s little sister.
Okay, all of these won’t work. For most people, this would work out: When he bugs you, sigh. A big sigh. Mumble this to yourself, a little bit loud so he can understand you… “*sigh* I wonder what I”LL DO TO HIM IF I WAS THE BROTHER AND HE WAS THE SISTER.”
You’re desperate. Desperate, desperate, desperate! Your brother wouldn’t stop. if he has a girlfriend, or a close friend that he “likes”, tell her all about what he’s done to you, and tell her that he probably does that to other girls. Say it in front of him. Say it in front of his best friends. AVOID YOUR PARENTS. Finally, when “his girl” leaves, run in to your room and lock the door. If you don’t have a lock, go to the bathroom. (I recommend you to bring a little “snack”, incase he’s after you after lunch or dinner.)
If he never knocks with out asking at your next family meeting (if you don’t have one tell your parents about your issue with him) and tell them how you feel about your brother not knocking on your door or coming in with out asking.
If he touches your stuff with out asking. Tell him to put it down and if he doesn’t listen go tell your parents. Your not being a taddle-tale when you go tell your parents. They deserve to know what he does that bugs you. They can help put an end to it.
If he takes your things, ask him nicely to ask before taking your stuff because you never know what the answer is going to be when you ask nicely.
If he is just being completely rude to you should be rude back see how he likes it or if you don’t want to do that then go tell your parents.
If he is bugging you a lot when you’re in your room close your door. It will tell him not to come in because he doesn’t want to walk in on you dressing.
If he uses the phone 24/7 (and you don’t have a cell phone) then ask him nicely when you can use it because you want to make plans with your friend. If he says that no because he waiting on a call back then ask him when the he is expecting the call. If he doesn’t know then tell him you will only be 5 minutes or just cut to the case and tell him you will only be five minutes.
There is no point in arguing with your brother because it gets you no were. You can use a compromise or just ignore him because once you start to argue they don’t listen and they just want to be right all the time.
Do not yell at them. It’s proven that boys listen better when you sit down with them and ask them nicely not to do it. Make sure there are no distractions around because boys get distracted easily it’s a proven fact that boys have a small attention span so don’t make it a big talk either. But when you yell at them they don’t like it and they will just yell back and it makes everything worse
Try to spend time with your brother. It makes it so you two are close and he wont bug you as much because he respects you. Try to do something you both like to do, (like Sports, movies, games, ECT.) but the only way It helps to take the blame for something small that your brother has done because it shows your brother that you’re not all that bad of a sister and he might do the same to you. It also shows your brother that he can trust you and the most important part of a relationship is trust.
If your brother comes to you for advice about girls or something then give it to him. Don’t be mean and give him the wrong advice, treat him as it were your best friend asking for advice. If it works it will show your brother that you’re not as dumb as he thought and he can come to you when he needs you.
THIS STUFF JUST DOESN’T WORK WITH MY BROTHER!!!! HE JUST GETS MAD AND COMES BACK WITH RUDE NASTY REMARKS!!!! HE WON’T STOP!!!! HE’LL KEEP DOING THESE THINGS NO MATTER WHAT I TELL OR DO TO HIM!!!
He might be doing it for attention, pure attention. The more you show a reaction the more he’ll do it. He does it just to get a reaction out of you, so by blowing up and yelling at him your just giving him what he wants.
this website is so right i do like all of this stuff and it works but then the next day he starts to annoy me again and he pisses me off so much so now when he does something small i lose my mind because he does it so often and i am sick of it!!!! but let me say this wbsite has helped!!! a ton!!!
dude im eight dont say crap to me and stuff but my bro is so annoying i just was playing with my friend and he wants me to go dude it is so annoying!!!
.. my bro wont let me be free u know he makes me get off a game without permission from our parents he is such a pain and ur little thing u posted dose not work i tryed dude i tryed
This would help except my brother beats me!! He comes home from school calls me and asshole or insults me in a way then punches me or hurts me. And he also humiliates me in front of people. His friends come over and he beats me and yells insults. And everytime I ask him nicely to quit he just says stuff like ” what are you gonna do.. you can’t do anything “
Alfredo, if your brother beats you then I think it’s about time you took matters into your own hands and let someone know about this problem. Thousands of teens go though emotional and physical abuse with out telling someone because they’re scared. I don’t know if your scared to tell anyone or not but if he’s hurting you than you cant fight him on your own. You need someone bigger and stronger to help you. Please go seek someone like a parent, teacher, or someone older than you. You don’t need the physical/emotional abuse hes giving you.
Thank you for this, My brothers annoy me all day and all night. But sence you have told me how to deal with them in every situation maybe they will finally stop. Though I am thinking about completely ignoring them, not playign with them, talking to them, eating next to them, or even thinking about them. Then maybe they’ll realize that they do want a sister and without one they’re lost. Hopefuly something will work.
None of those tips would work with my brother because he has no respect for anyone except for his girlfriend. His girl friend is nice but i seriously think she has picked the wrong boy to be in a relationship with. My brother also thinks he is the best and really thinks he can get away with everything (which he does). Mum and Dad don’t do much about his disrespect, his rude comments and his horrible threats that come towards me. I have been putting up with this for 15 years and I am really sick of it and wish it would stop. I remember one day my brother told me to go to Jenny Craig and mum was really pissed off with me and she agreed with him.
Thanks for your advice. my brother is always such a bloody pain and he always embarrases me in front of others like my little cousins. He is 23 and i am only 12. I have tried all these these things but everyone favours my brother and don’t even care about me. I hate my life because of him. I am living with a bully. He even tried to crash my pet dog with a bike once. I wish my brother would just die. Please give me sum ideas for revenge. I am very despareate and miserable.
If your brother is still 23 and living at home than all you can do is laugh at him. Just know that he’s the one who should be off living somewhere else than the room he’s been in for 23 years. lol. But it sounds like your brother hasn’t grown up. He hasn’t matured at all. But older brothers tend to do this to younger siblings especially with that much of an age difference. They tease you more and they do it in front of family. Sometimes they do it to show that they love you. All you can do is make fun of him back, like when he makes fun of you hit him back with a comment. I don’t suggest doing this with a brother who inst withing 8 years older than you but with this much of an age difference there’s really nothing much you can do but tease him back. Don’t do physical revenge because we all know that wont go well… Just use sarcasm. It might work. Or try ignoring it. If he doesn’t see you making a reaction to what he’s saying he’ll eventually stop becasue its not fun making fun of someone who doesn’t get upset or show reaction. It’s like making fun of a wall…and that’s not fun at all. Try the ignoring his comments thing first and if that doesn’t work than just hit him back with some scarcastic comment on how hes still living at home or something. But remember be patient it takes time for him to see that he’s not getting a reaction out of you anymore.
THIS STUFF JUST DOESN’T WORK WITH MY BROTHER!!!! HE JUST GETS MAD AND COMES BACK WITH RUDE NASTY REMARKS!!!! HE WON’T STOP!!!! HE’LL KEEP DOING THESE THINGS NO MATTER WHAT I TELL OR DO TO HIM!!!
He might be doing it for attention, pure attention. The more you show a reaction the more he’ll do it. He does it just to get a reaction out of you, so by blowing up and yelling at him your just giving him what he wants.
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thank you so much it has helped me with dealing on him and tyring to ignore him when he is being a brat. Thanks
this website is so right i do like all of this stuff and it works but then the next day he starts to annoy me again and he pisses me off so much so now when he does something small i lose my mind because he does it so often and i am sick of it!!!! but let me say this wbsite has helped!!! a ton!!!
thanks a lots u realy helped me with my LIL brother LOL he can get so anoying I just want to strangle him sometimes
dude im eight dont say crap to me and stuff but my bro is so annoying i just was playing with my friend and he wants me to go dude it is so annoying!!!
.. my bro wont let me be free u know he makes me get off a game without permission from our parents he is such a pain and ur little thing u posted dose not work i tryed dude i tryed
i think this advice is wonderful thankyou a lot!
i love these tips
No affense but are not things that will help my brother stop being mean! He has a devel inside him hes so mean!
This would help except my brother beats me!! He comes home from school calls me and asshole or insults me in a way then punches me or hurts me. And he also humiliates me in front of people. His friends come over and he beats me and yells insults. And everytime I ask him nicely to quit he just says stuff like ” what are you gonna do.. you can’t do anything “
Alfredo, if your brother beats you then I think it’s about time you took matters into your own hands and let someone know about this problem. Thousands of teens go though emotional and physical abuse with out telling someone because they’re scared. I don’t know if your scared to tell anyone or not but if he’s hurting you than you cant fight him on your own. You need someone bigger and stronger to help you. Please go seek someone like a parent, teacher, or someone older than you. You don’t need the physical/emotional abuse hes giving you.
Thank you for this, My brothers annoy me all day and all night. But sence you have told me how to deal with them in every situation maybe they will finally stop. Though I am thinking about completely ignoring them, not playign with them, talking to them, eating next to them, or even thinking about them. Then maybe they’ll realize that they do want a sister and without one they’re lost. Hopefuly something will work.
Blessings, Kenna.
Good advice. I am 9 and he is twelve. IT IS SO ANNOYING! My parents get mad at him but he still wont stop. The advice did work. THNX.
None of those tips would work with my brother because he has no respect for anyone except for his girlfriend. His girl friend is nice but i seriously think she has picked the wrong boy to be in a relationship with. My brother also thinks he is the best and really thinks he can get away with everything (which he does). Mum and Dad don’t do much about his disrespect, his rude comments and his horrible threats that come towards me. I have been putting up with this for 15 years and I am really sick of it and wish it would stop. I remember one day my brother told me to go to Jenny Craig and mum was really pissed off with me and she agreed with him.
Thanks 4 the advice, will help my in in life.
well my brother is the best
sorry that was my brother he is acually the meanest
Thanks for your advice. my brother is always such a bloody pain and he always embarrases me in front of others like my little cousins. He is 23 and i am only 12. I have tried all these these things but everyone favours my brother and don’t even care about me. I hate my life because of him. I am living with a bully. He even tried to crash my pet dog with a bike once. I wish my brother would just die. Please give me sum ideas for revenge. I am very despareate and miserable.
If your brother is still 23 and living at home than all you can do is laugh at him. Just know that he’s the one who should be off living somewhere else than the room he’s been in for 23 years. lol. But it sounds like your brother hasn’t grown up. He hasn’t matured at all. But older brothers tend to do this to younger siblings especially with that much of an age difference. They tease you more and they do it in front of family. Sometimes they do it to show that they love you. All you can do is make fun of him back, like when he makes fun of you hit him back with a comment. I don’t suggest doing this with a brother who inst withing 8 years older than you but with this much of an age difference there’s really nothing much you can do but tease him back. Don’t do physical revenge because we all know that wont go well… Just use sarcasm. It might work. Or try ignoring it. If he doesn’t see you making a reaction to what he’s saying he’ll eventually stop becasue its not fun making fun of someone who doesn’t get upset or show reaction. It’s like making fun of a wall…and that’s not fun at all. Try the ignoring his comments thing first and if that doesn’t work than just hit him back with some scarcastic comment on how hes still living at home or something. But remember be patient it takes time for him to see that he’s not getting a reaction out of you anymore.