Well Nathen is how can I put this he’s just Nathen and we would have him no other way! He’s going to be a sophomore in High School. He is a B/A average student. He loves sports. Nathen plays on a soccer team for Highland Park High School and does Track. He has almost broken the freshman record for 500k intermediate hurdles but he was .45 seconds off. Freshman year he went to sectionals for track running on varsity. Nathen also plays defense or midfield in soccer. He is really aggressive and plays with dedicates 150% into the games. He is the key to winning the game. He stops almost every person that tries to score on him. Nathen likes to watch a lot of soccer, basketball, and football on TV. He roots for the Bears for football, the chicago White Sox for baseball, and he loves to watch the Eurpean Leauge play soccer (its 10 times better then the M.L.S.). He also likes CSI, American Idol, 24, and some comedy shows. Nathen watches a lot of movies; his favorites are Wedding Crashers, 40 year old virgin, The 300, Disturbia. Nathen expresses himself through his music. He loves old rock bands, but he likes a mix of everything. Some Nathen’s favorite bands are: AC/DC, Peter Frampton, Aerosmith, Akon, Boys Like Girls, Buckcherry, Hootie & The Blowfish, Iron Maiden, Jack Johnson, Kansas, Nirvana, T.I., Train, Van Halen, Yellowcard, and many more. Nathen is a pretty good cook. He makes me Mack& cheese or pancakes sometimes. He eats a lot like nonstop. Some of his favorites are hot dogs, pancakes, pizza, beans, funnel cake, and ice cream. Nathen’s favorite color is blue (thats like everyones favorite color!). He loves to go to Six Flags for the roller coasters or any thrilling ride there. He has a lot of friends. He loves to hang out with them at the movies, playing games (normally he sets up a game of soccer), or we just have them all over for a bon-fire. Nathen’s friends are pretty nice but there are a few that are annoying. The make a lot of jokes and they do the funniest things. Nathen is a big jokester, he loves to play jokes on people and he’s super funny. Well now you know all about Nathen! Stay tuned to see what crazy things his friends do next!
You are lucky because you don’t have an younger brother. I do. My life is being tortured by my seven year old brother. He hates girls his age and teen girls, shows no respect to adults, hates everything I love, only shows respect towards boys his age, and hates a certain sport that he likes. He likes a certain thing including music and hates it the next day or week. I hate it. I love my favorites all day and night and forever. He has a memory problem that is he forgets things easily like when he puts his Game Boy somewhere and he forgets where he put it when my parents ask him about his Game Boy. He makes fun of singers on television including female singers since he hates girls including the singers I listen to. I hope your brother isn’t like my brother. He gets mad easily. I think he has a tantrum. Can you help me with my brother problem?
Hi, sorry it took me so long to respond. I didn’t think that people were actually reading my blog and commenting on it so I stopped. I don’t know your brother and I don’t know his life but from what you’re telling me it’s making me think that he might have some type of disorder. I know I have a couple and I am in no way trying to diagnose him with something. He could have anger management, ADD, etc. This could be why hes acting out so much. I know my cousin has constant tantrums, she forgets things easily, and doesn’t have many friends because of her tantrums. All you can do is love them and be nice to them. It’s not their fault they’re doing this. I know this maybe isn’t what you expected to hear but maybe it’s something that you needed to hear. You should talk to someone about getting him checked out because the sooner you find out the better. If it was me, I’d rather know that he’s acting out because of some disorder than because he’s doing it for fun. If he’s doing it because of a disorder than he cant help it, no one can. All you can do is love them and try to help them.
But than again, that age factor does play a major role into why hes so immature. I do have a younger brother, he’s 6. They just need time to mature because we we’re all like this at one point in our life and we still are. Just because he loves one song one day and hates the other the next doesn’t mean you should bash him for it. That’s just how some people are.
I hope I’ve helped and this isn’t to late. Just try looking at it in a different perspective.
well i have a big brother and he is totally annoying i cannot deal with him anymore. He reads my diaries where i confess all of my crushes and embarassing things like that. He also picks up on everything i say and makes a really immature comment about it which really gets under my skin. He also doesnt like theme rides or anything fun.He’s quite cool sometimes and great to play games with but i wish he just liked more things that are fun so we could all go on family outings together.He has really changed since he has got a girlfriend and he has also started hanging round with other people because of her and some of them are really annoying and immature for there age and i think that some of them hav changed him so hav you got any advice on how i could persuade him to come on family outings and at last try to enjoy them? And how do i approach him and ask him why he tries to get under my skin so much??
First off, if he’s getting into your personal stuff than you need to put it somewhere where he wont. Lock it up, place it in a spot where he wont reach it. Don’t put your journals in obvious places like a bookshelf, under the pillow, on your desk, in a cabinet. Place it somewhere he wont think of looking. Since I don’t know your situation fully I’m not sure if this advice will work but it’s worth a try.
Try and talk to your parents about this issue first. Tell them how you feel and tell them that you wish you guys could do more family outings and stuff because ultimately your parents have the biggest say in this. They can plan a day where you all go and do something. Try to compromise with what your brother likes so he can enjoy it somewhat. If you guys go to a movie, go see something he wants to watch and I’m sure he’d enjoy it. It might not be what YOU want to do but there’s always next time. If you can try and talk to him, tell him how you feel. He might not have the reaction you want him to have but I’m sure he’ll listen. It might take him some time for things to sink in and for him to realize hes hurting you and everyone around you. I know with my older brother it took him almost 2 years to finally realize what he was doing to me. I hit rock bottom with him this summer and I lost it. I yelled at him and told him he was the worst brother every and I wanted a new one. I don’t know if it was a wake up call for him but now I’m starting to see him change.
For approaching him on why he tries to get under you skin, don’t. This is the most worst possible thing you could do because we all know the answer. He does it for a reaction. The more you show him a reaction and get angry the more he’ll do it. They don’t have a LEGIT reason why they do it but they do. Boys are obnoxious and they think everything is funny when it’s not. They don’t have 1/2 the heart girls do and they don’t show compassion in the way that we do. Boys and girls are complete opposites and you have to keep that in mind. They’re going to come off and act tough but on the inside they do care.